What do I say about this lovely lady that was only a figment of our imagination last year at this time? Maybe she was a little more than that, because we knew she existed, but we had no idea that she and Josh would actually become a couple and we were only hoping and dreaming that it would happen.
I first met Julissa Rochelle Lehman (Eberly then) at a Second Tunic banquet last April. At that time, we knew that she and Josh were communicating but we really didn't know any more than that. We didn't know if they liked each other or if they were deciding not to pursue the relationship. We had gone to the banquet with Steve's parents and it was a little awkward when we realized that she was there. Did we talk to her or just ignore her? Steve's mom solved that dilemma when after the banquet she hopped up from the table and said, "let's go talk to Julissa." I can usually make small talk but I honestly did not know what to say to this charming young woman. She was pleasant and friendly and we managed to talk for a little about nonsensical things and then as she was leaving, she said, "well, I'm sure I will see you again!" Steve and I were ecstatic! Maybe there really was something going on between her and Josh. On the way home I texted Josh, "she seems really nice." He soon texted back, "I know." It's amazing how two little words of a text can make you so happy. That's when Steve and I realized that the two of them really were serious about their relationship!
I have so enjoyed getting to know Julissa. She is fun to be around and easy to talk with. Having just officially joined the family three months ago we still have a lot to learn about each other but she is fitting in so well that it all seems so easy. Since their marriage, she and Josh have joined us for Wednesday evening suppers. I was hoping she didn't feel like it was an obligation, but when she made the comment that it was nice to have a day when she didn't have to worry about supper, it made my heart happy. It was also nice to see that when Josh had to work a little late and couldn't make it in time for supper she was comfortable to join us herself and take a doggy box home for him.
Julissa is a woman of many talents who loves Jesus, music, reading, baking/cooking, and exercising among other things. (Well, maybe she doesn't love exercising but she does it and has even run a 5K.) Josh's bachelor pad has been turned into a lovely home thanks to her woman's touch. Josh has always been a pretty happy guy but having her in his life has added an extra spark in his eye and spring to his step that has been wonderful for this mother to see. As I have said in previous posts, seeing my children happy in their relationships is what makes me happy.
When I look back over the past year and think how our lives (especially Josh's) have been blessed by the addition of Julissa to our family I am thankful. Thankful to God for his faithfulness, thankful to Steve's parents for their part in getting them together, thankful for Josh and Julissa that they found each other, and thankful that she is now part of our family.
Happy 28th birthday Julissa! I am so glad to call you my daughter-in-law!
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